This week has been a medley of emotions. Not from me. Rather, I've been on the receiving end of it.
First up there was a mediation, my first if you will. There were eight parties including the claimant, and only 3 lawyers. Most parties were pensioners, in their retirement, and overly frustrated at the system and the claim against them. So needless to say there was a broiler of emotions. Thankfully, I somehow seemed to be considered a voice of reason. I'm not sure how it happened, but people listened to me. Which makes me think I have my 'normal voice' and my 'lawyer voice'. I can tell when there's a shift, but I don't know what triggers it. One just sounds more assertive, more certain.
Anyway, I digress. I wasn't prepared for the emotional onslaught from these parties wrapped up in this claim. It was hard, but ultimately it's the best result for them in the long term: no trial, no uncertainty in the outcome.
As for the aforementioned arguing lawyers. Well, Friday proved interesting. A lawyer and his firm shall remain unnamed, but he tried picking a fight with me over emails between the tribunal and other parties. It was over a confidentiality issue. I remained calm, and professional. He digressed and took things to a personal level. Not what I would expect from a partner in a firm. The good news though: I got what I wanted, and he was politely demonished by the tribunal. Wonder if his actions will have any professional repercussions.
And now, it's the weekend. Thank heavens.
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